We’ve all been there. We scroll through Instagram or Tiktok and get flooded with dog training advice. Do this. Don’t do this. Do that instead. But what if it wasn’t so complicated? What if the real change actually happens in the small moments?
Pet Calm, Calm Pets
Oftentimes, we think of rewards with our dogs as handing them a treat. But we’re actually rewarding more than we think, even when we’re not aware of it. The most common way we do this is through petting your dog. Jumping, demand-seeking behaviors, and constant nudges for affection are often rewarded through touch.
So the next time your dog jumps, counter-surfs, or is pushing you for attention, say “No” (once, try not to repeat), and redirect them away with a leash. When they’re calm, turn to them, simply say “Good”, and pet them. This simple mindset shift can facilitate more change than any advanced Obedience technique.
Calm Equals Access
Access motivates a dog more than treats in many cases. This is why dogs will ring the bells on the door handle but not actually have to go to the bathroom. They’ve simply learned, I do this enough times, and you will let me out to play.
Instead, calm behavior is what leads to access, not chaos. When you approach the door, whether that’s their crate door, entrance to your home, or vehicle, hold a standard of calmness prior to your dog entering or exiting a new environment. Calm behavior = access.
Crates Aren’t Punishment, They’re Safety
Most dogs who can’t settle inside the home or only choose to after performing chaotic behavior will continue a cycle of over-arousal, hyperactivity, and stress or frustration throughout the day.
A crate solves for all of that. But the crate isn’t punishment. It’s a proactive measure. It’s one that actually allows your dog to decompress. Most unhealthy habits in our dogs form when we’re not around. A crate solves for that, too. And it’s never too late.
Start today, small moments inside, reward for calmness, and build your dog up to greater duration over the coming days.
In Closing
Dogs simply need clear direction from us. When we’re clear in our actions, bad behavior dissipates, and good behavior shines through. If this resonated and you want help applying it with your dog, reach out anytime:
info@hopegablescanine.com 🐕✨
Nicolas Angione is the founder and head dog trainer at Hope Gables Canine, based in Fairfield County, CT. Inspired by his own dog's reactive journey and rehabilitation, he left his career behind to become a dog trainer. After years of shadowing other dog trainers in the industry, he started his own practice, which has successfully helped hundreds of dog owners, both domestic and abroad, regain peace and harmony with their dogs. Many of these success stories, dog training tips, and more can be found on their Instagram and YouTube pages.
